Train Your Brain

This week, I offer you 2 videos that discuss how the brain works and how to help it help you. Your brain is powerful and brilliant but sometimes, in its attempt to keep you safe, it is misguided. You can override this when you need to. I offer a couple of tips about how this works.

Focus on an Outcome, Not on the Problem

In today's video, I talk a bit about brain science. If we can understand how the brain works, we can support it to work for us instead of against us. There are three parts to our brain: the cerebrum, cerebellum, and the brain stem. The brain stem (also known as the reptilian brain) can sometimes wreak a bit of havoc on us when it gets triggered because it is desperate to keep us safe. It can feel threatened even when there is no real threat. So, we have to bring our cerebrum online to override our trigger happy brain stem. I talk about one way to do this.


Train Your Brain to See the Good

Today's video is a follow-up to the last. We go a bit deeper into how your brain works and how to override some of its limitations. The brain's primary functions are to keep you safe and to conserve energy. Overall, it does a great job but sometimes it works against what's best for us and we have to intentionally override it. The good news is that we can!

How to Help People in Need

This week, I offer you two videos that talk about how to help others in need. You may hear a bit of a different perspective here that I believe will support you in helping others more easily and effectively. Take a listen, and do download the PDF that I provide with the tips I offer.

How to Save Someone’s Life

In this video, I share a passage from a book entitled Welcome to the Circle by Jake Orlowitz. This passage is all about how to save a life when the only life you can save is your own. This is exceedingly important and I talk a bit about my own experience of breaking down over 20 years ago and what was needed. Caring for others can be exhausting and overwhelming but there is a way that it can be less burdensome when you understand what Jake and I are sharing here.


How to Help Someone in Need

In my last video, I talked about the importance of saving your life first if you want to help others. In today's video, I offer some practical DOs and DON'Ts that can support you in helping others. I've also created a downloadable page for you with these tips. Download your free PDF below that goes with this video containing all the tips I mention.

I would absolutely love to hear from you in the comments below. How do these messages land for you? What makes sense and what doesn’t?

What NOT to Do if You Want to Be Successful

This week, I offer you two videos and transcripts that will help you stop doing some things that interfere in your success. If you want more success, stop doing these things.

Don’t Wait for Perfection & Courage

In this video, I talk about taking off the blinders of perfection so that we don't miss the opportunities around us. How often do we wait for perfection, courage, or confidence before we take action? How much do we miss out on because of those blinders? In this video, I invite you to move forward whether or not you have full clarity, confidence, courage, or perfection.


Don’t Aim at Success

Yes, I know this could seem a tad oxymoronic, after all, we've been taught to absolutely aim for success. There's a saying, if you don't aim for anything, you'll achieve nothing. I tend to agree, however, in aiming for success and even happiness, we may be aiming for the wrong thing. In this video, I talk about what we could aim for instead of success and how that may get us closer to where we want to go. Take a listen!

How to Calm Mental Chatter and Lower Stress

This week, I offer you two videos, 1 transcript, and a 14-page eBook to help you calm your mental chatter and lower your stress. Take your time with the eBook and look for ways to incorporate a few of the tips into your daily life. I believe you will find them helpful.

Overcoming Mental Chatter and Stress

It is a difficult and exciting time to be alive. The world is in great need and it is important that each of us step up and give our very best gifts. That's extremely difficult to do when we are caught up in so much mental chatter and overwhelm. In this video, I offer some very simple and practical ways to calm the mental chatter and lower your stress levels. Be sure to download the eBook containing all the tips and more.


How Living in the Moment Can Help Lower Stress

In this video, I go more deeply into one of the tips I gave you in the last video. This tip was new for many of my viewers and they wanted more. So, I explain how living in the moment can actually help you access your inherent wisdom and resilience, bringing you back to clarity and finding your way forward from there. It's all about waking up to where your attention is. You can find the link to the eBook I mention in the link above.

Help During Difficult Situations

This week, I offer you three videos + transcripts to help you deal with the difficulties we find ourselves in these days. I doubt there is any going back to normal, rather, we are being called to move forward. Who do you want to be in this chaotic, exciting time of transition and change?

How to Prepare for a Difficult Situation

Today, I awoke thinking of all that's going on in our world right now. The collective stress is palpable and I've heard from some of you that your individual stress is overwhelming at times.

In today's video, I offer a simple yet powerful tool to help you prepare to face a difficult situation. Don't let the simple nature of this practice fool you. Play with it and see how it can bring you more clarity and flow. I have placed the link to the document I mention in the video in the first comment below. I hope you find this helpful!


How to Stay Sane in Difficult Times

I awoke this morning feeling the collective stress. As lay in bed, I realized that I must be intentional about taking extra special care of myself if I'm to be able to navigate these difficult times. In this video, I give you several tips that can help you bring more ease and flow into your day. I hope you'll give them a try!


Stop Collapsing In Difficult Times

In this video, I share a bit of my struggle navigating the new normal in which we find ourselves as we live through a pandemic and social justice movement. Change is not linear. It's always messy. We've got to find ways to ground ourselves so that we can give our best gifts to a world in great need. I offer a glimpse into my own struggles as well as some tips that I hope you will find helpful.

Pay Attention to Your Attention

Want to Enjoy Life More? Here’s How

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In this video, I share a compelling quote from a Mary Oliver poem and I talk about how you can find more enjoyment in each day regardless of what's going on out there in this chaotic world. The tip I share here will help you to show up more powerfully for yourself and this world that is in great need. If you practice this, you will feel more alive and awake.

Where is Your Attention & Why it Matters

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In today's video, I want to talk to you about where you place your attention. Attention creates the pathway and action follows, so it's vitally important that you learn to see where you are placing your attention. As you focus your attention intentionally in the right direction, you will find more peace and clarity in your life regardless of what's going on out there.

What to Do When You've Really Messed Up

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I don't know about you but when I mess up, I can go right into a stressful thought storm. Once in that storm, I become overwhelmed and can even become paralyzed or stuck. Have you experienced the same? In this video, I describe a mess up I discovered this morning and how I found my way through it. I will give you a couple of tips to help you find your way through your mess-ups much more easily.

You can download the transcript if you prefer to read rather than listen.


If you are facing a mess up and you’re having a bit of difficulty moving through it, then take me up on my offer of a coaching session at no charge to you. We will spend 60 minutes together on Zoom or phone.

By the end of the session, you will likely have more clarity, feel more grounded, able to breathe a bit easier, and have a bit more traction and ease to get on with it.

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What to Do When Feeling Down

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Life is a roller coaster. We know this but sometimes we believe it shouldn't be so. In this video, I give you some tips about what to do and what not to do when you are feeling down. It may be a little different perspective than you are accustomed to so take a listen.

You can download the transcript if you prefer to read rather than listen.